Bill McDonald's Newsletter: 'Paying Attention'

Reaching Across – My Response to the Election

It’s been a week now of frantic post-mortems, almost ad nauseam. Many more than Baskin Robbins teasing a diabetic with its multiverse of flavors. I would read them when I should have been getting some sleep. I needed to make some sense of some outcomes that weren’t to my liking.  I wanted some guidance on what to think and how to make sense of what has been spoken by the summation of all those one-vote-per-person decision bits. And what do I want to say myself in retrospect? Many readers will

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My monthly newsletter, “Paying Attention,” was launched in April, 2007.  Each one contains thoughts and ideas that occur in the general areas of psychology, culture, or other matters that come from the interface between my work and the rest of the world. They may also contain news and information about myself, and new areas of my work, study and research.

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“In” Love

Some years ago, when I was reading many of the works of Charles Williams,1 I came across a brief theatrical interlude between Mary & Joseph: Mary:  “Joseph

Making Decisions

Sometimes, clients will come to me to help make “an important decision.” Over the years, I’ve discovered and developed a protocol for making decisions, that

Jacob’s Wound / God’s Wounding

One of my favorite counseling stories from the Old Testament is the account of Jacob wrestling with God “by the ford of the river Jabbok.”

Pacifism or Passivity

Let me begin with a story I’ll frequently share with clients. The Old Monk and the Cobra Somewhere in the Indian subcontinent, there’s a village.

Despise Nothing, Honor Everything

This is one of those “my father taught me” statements. And that’s how I speak of it whenever I teach it to my clients. Truth

What Now?

Last year, as every year, ended with a narrative about the Holy Birth of a Prince of Peace. Born in innocence and vulnerability Now, The

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