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Liars
Part Two in a series on Countering Aggression Lying as Aggression My working definition here of lying is A conscious corruption of reality by the spoken word – and therefore, is an aggressive act, even if accidental, and even if the intention is unconscious. The Mirror Last month, I wrote about using the power of a mirror as an instrument of self-protection – and I continue here for that same purpose of self-protection. Let me stretch the metaphor a little farther here. If we look at ourselves in a
My monthly newsletter, “Paying Attention,” was launched in April, 2007. Each one contains thoughts and ideas that occur in the general areas of psychology, culture, or other matters that come from the interface between my work and the rest of the world. They may also contain news and information about myself, and new areas of my work, study and research.
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Liars
Part Two in a series on Countering Aggression Lying as Aggression My working definition here of lying is A conscious corruption of reality by the
Personal Protection – the Pocket Mirror
Part One in a series on Countering Aggression Backstory Many years ago, when my children were “just kids,” I wandered into our living room where
How to Speak to a New Year Like This One
I receive a weekly online publication, Maria Popova’s The Marginalian (founded in 2006) In Praise of the Telescopic Perspective:A Reflection on Living Through Turbulent Times.https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/12/21/reflection/
From Darkness to Hope
I need to share that in writing under this title, that I am not just honoring the wisdom of the seasons of Nature. I want
Reaching Across – My Response to the Election
It’s been a week now of frantic post-mortems, almost ad nauseam. Many more than Baskin Robbins teasing a diabetic with its multiverse of flavors. I
The Benefits and Pitfalls of Third-Party Mental Health Insurance
Some Background and Considerations [This is a minor re-write of an article I originally wrote 18 years ago. Very little of my mind has changed over
“In” Love
Some years ago, when I was reading many of the works of Charles Williams,1 I came across a brief theatrical interlude between Mary & Joseph: Mary: “Joseph
The Psalms – Finally A Way To Enjoy Them
Readers,I’m going to get ‘religions’ on you for a moment or two. For some, that will be fine; for others, that can be an “Oh
Reading the Bubbles – and with Care
A while ago, I was listening to a friend ranting about his job, specifically his boss. I heard the same word used at least four
Making Decisions
Sometimes, clients will come to me to help make “an important decision.” Over the years, I’ve discovered and developed a protocol for making decisions, that
Jacob’s Wound / God’s Wounding
One of my favorite counseling stories from the Old Testament is the account of Jacob wrestling with God “by the ford of the river Jabbok.”
Pacifism or Passivity
Let me begin with a story I’ll frequently share with clients. The Old Monk and the Cobra Somewhere in the Indian subcontinent, there’s a village.