Don’t Defend, Don’t Explain, Don’t Justify
I came across these rules many years ago, as guidelines of value especially in relationship arguments. An expanded version goes like this: Whenever you feel the need (i.e. are tempted) to defend yourself, to explain yourself, to justify yourself – Don’t! Don’t DorEorJ Because, if you do – NOTHING OF VALUE WILL HAPPEN. Now, at first this didn’t make much sense […]
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