Nov 2022
Teetering on the Edge Oct 2022
Being Crossed Sep 2022
Wrestling with God Aug 2022
Don’t Defend, Don’t Explain, Don’t Justify Jul 2022
Chaos & Creativity Jun 2022
“One Nation, Under Guns…” May 2022
Exercising Your Imagination Apr 2022
Some Random Relationship Advice for Men Mar 2022
Ukraine - my first week - A Personal Recollection Feb 2022
A Man Must Do.... Jan 2022
Counterpose - That Could Also Mean…. Dec 2021
“Where Have All the Children Gone?” Nov 2021
Word Play - “Mean” Oct 2021
Trusting Providence Aug 2021
A Near Complete Change of Plans Jul 2021
Well, I Reckon Jun 2021
Remembering Andy May 2021
“I Don’t Know What’s Going to Happen Today” Apr 2021
Why can’t you speak to me like that? Mar 2021
"Yes" Feb 2021
The Sweet Silver Song of a Lark Jan 2021
Too Much and Never Enough Dec 2020
After the People Stayed Home Nov 2020
Getting Over or Getting Through Oct 2020
On Procrastination Sep 2020
“Maybe You’re Right.” Aug 2020
“Be Kind. Always.” Jul 2020
“Be Safe” - Well-wishing myself in a Covid Age - Part 2 of 2 Jun 2020
“Be Safe” - Well-wishing in a Covid Age - Part 1 of 2 May 2020
Oh, the Comfort… Apr 2020
Toward a “New Normal” Mar 2020
The Covid-19 Crisis Feb 2020
What Does it Mean to Love? (Valentine’s Day) Jan 2020
New Years Day Reverie - “What Now?” / Hands of Guidance Dec 2019
Nearby Healing Gifts & A Christmas Memory Nov 2019
“I could’ve (forehead slap) had a V-8!” Oct 2019
Therapy & Marriage - a comparison Sep 2019
Lighthouses Aug 2019
The Barn Fire Jul 2019
A Safe Place Jun 2019
Why Feed What Isn’t You? May 2019
The Art of “Flipping.” Apr 2019
Rumi’s Field (part 2 of 2) Mar 2019
I'll Meet You There - (Part one of two) Jan 2019
Inside / Outside - The Two Places Where We Live Dec 2018
Tale for a Winter Holiday Evening Nov 2018
Anonymous Benevolence Oct 2018
“Until Life’s Work is Done” Sep 2018
Iron Lines in the Wilderness Aug 2018
Becoming Zusha Jul 2018
The Space In-Between Jun 2018
“The Burning Bed” May 2018
Always More Choices Apr 2018
Dividing the World in order to Save It Mar 2018
Ashes, Roses & More Dead Children Feb 2018
Betrayal Jan 2018
New Year 2018 - A Better Year? Yes, at least Some Dec 2017
Between a Rock and a Fruitcake Nov 2017
To Care or Not to Care Oct 2017
The Thin Cord Sep 2017
The Man with a Church on his Back [A poetic whimsey-bit] Aug 2017
Ships Passing in the Night Jul 2017
Another Pattern of Hope Jun 2017
The Harpist in the Doorway May 2017
“Honor Everything - Despise Nothing” Apr 2017
Effective Leadership Mar 2017
An Anatomy of Hope for 2017 (Part Three) Feb 2017
An Anatomy of Hope for 2017 (Part Two of Three) Jan 2017
An Anatomy of Hope for 2017 (Part One) Dec 2016
Gratitude - an Antidote to Despair Nov 2016
The Holidays’ Dark Side - Holiday Time in a Therapist’s Office Oct 2016
Innocence and Wisdom Sep 2016
All Journeys Intersect Aug 2016
Oh No! Not Again! Jul 2016
If Angels could be Jealous Jun 2016
My House - an Homage May 2016
Sorry to Interrupt, but I’m not Listening Apr 2016
A Second Door Mar 2016
The Fable of the Two Shoulders Feb 2016
The Human Condition (Part 3): Hope Jan 2016
The Human Condition (Part 2 of 3) Dec 2015
The Human Condition (Part 1 of 3) Nov 2015
Autumn Thoughts Oct 2015
The Suitcase Packed in the Closet Sep 2015
Narcissists and Empaths Aug 2015
The Night before the Beginning of my 75th Year Jul 2015
Right Thinking or Real People Jun 2015
Treating Others May 2015
Moving On Apr 2015
Peripheral Vision (Psychological) Mar 2015
The Magic of Marital Conversation Feb 2015
The Blarney Stone Jan 2015
Overseeing (upon entering 2015) Dec 2014
Breaking Bread Nov 2014
Nature and Human Nature - a differentiation Oct 2014
The Fear of Going Down (Part II of “The Space In Between”) Sep 2014
Robin Williams - Ambassador for the deeply human Aug 2014
The Space In Between - Pt I (Blessing) Jul 2014
Right Nearby Jun 2014
Engage - Release - Move on. The Rhythm of Life May 2014
Into The Belly of the Beast Apr 2014
Responding to the Narcissists’ Women Mar 2014
The Second Half of Life Feb 2014
Journeys Up and Journeys Down Jan 2014
The Hidden Holiday Gift Dec 2013
Kennedy Time - and a world at odds with itself Nov 2013
Life is Difficult, but it is Good Oct 2013
Money Sep 2013
When in doubt, Flip It! Aug 2013
Moving On - or playing by the rules Jul 2013
Personal Responsibility - and its pitfalls Jun 2013
The Age of the Autoimmune May 2013
Who’s Telling Me Who I Am? Apr 2013
The question “Why?” Mar 2013
Communicating with Men Feb 2013
Listen to her, Don’t Think! Jan 2013
“My Precious” Dec 2012
The Small Places Nov 2012
Manifesto Oct 2012
The Law of Hospitality - The High Road Sep 2012
Betrayal Aug 2012
Hearing My Name Jul 2012
“Froggy” Jun 2012
Giving and Caring May 2012
Words Are Cheap, Or.... Apr 2012
Institution or Person Mar 2012
Seeing Clearly? Feb 2012
The Vulnerability of the Loving Heart Jan 2012
As If No Tomorrow Dec 2011
Gollum’s Pool Nov 2011
No More Status Quo. Occupy! Oct 2011
Creative Conversation Sep 2011
Where is Hope? Aug 2011
Watching the Grass Grow Jul 2011
Letting Go Jun 2011
The Third Act May 2011
Enter The Bitch Apr 2011
The Narcissist and His Woman Mar 2011
Unconditional Love Feb 2011
Asking Questions Jan 2011
How to Write Dec 2010
Business & Community Nov 2010
Secondary Gains Oct 2010
It’s Easier to Divide Sep 2010
The Choice to Succeed Aug 2010
The Small Space Between Jul 2010
The Ascendency of Narcissism Jun 2010
It’s the Relationship May 2010
Telephone Vampire Etiquette Apr 2010
The Log at the Dam Mar 2010
Doing Something Stupid Feb 2010
Why can’t you be that nice to me? Jan 2010
After Depression Dec 2009
The Holidays Nov 2009
Don’t Stir Things Up Oct 2009
The Old Orchard Road Sep 2009
Reunion Aug 2009
It’s Easier to Divide than Unite Jul 2009
The Grass is Greener - or Living from the Inside Out Jun 2009
Fear (and its silence) May 2009
Thirteen Options Apr 2009
Cinderella’s Stepmom Mar 2009
Coin Toss Divination Feb 2009
Protecting the Therapist (musing with Stephen King) Jan 2009
The Leveling Question Dec 2008
Scaffolding - and the New Year 2009 Nov 2008
The Apple Oct 2008
Attraction Sep 2008
Be Not Quick to Forgive Aug 2008
Alone on an Island Jul 2008
Sandbagging - how small is your circle? Jun 2008
STRESS! - it's not just the economy May 2008
The Basement Wedding Apr 2008
Having One's Own Voice Mar 2008
Absolutely Feb 2008
The Demise of Intimate Conversation (Communication in Marriage) Jan 2008
Life or Living? (and New Year's Resolutions) Dec 2007
The Holidays: Shadow and Light - and Stories Nov 2007
The Third Wish Oct 2007
Givers and Takers in Relationships Part 4 of 4 - Resolving the Issues Oct 2007
Givers and Takers in Relationships Part 3 of 4 - Givers Oct 2007
Givers and Takers in Relationships Part 2 of 4 - Takers Oct 2007
Givers and Takers in Relationships Part 1 of 4 - Introduction Sep 2007
To Fight Crazy - A Reflection on 9/11 Aug 2007
The Empty Spaces Jul 2007
On Talking Politics and Religion Jun 2007
Making a Decision to Change - Part 3: The Risks May 2007
Making a Decision to Change - Part 2: The Choice Apr 2007
Making a Decision to Change - Part I